Why Every Parent of Muslim Teenagers Should Listen to Br. Hamzah Henshaw’s Advice on College Admissions

As parents of Muslim teenagers, it’s natural to feel the pressure—not just from schools, peers, or society—but from within: wanting your child to shine academically, stay true to their faith, and build a meaningful future. But is the usual “perfect grades + test scores = success” formula enough?

In the latest IQRA Network Podcast episode titled “Helping Muslim Teens Get into the College of Their Dreams”, host(s) interview Br. Hamzah Henshaw, a Harvard graduate and longtime mentor to Muslim youth, brings a fresh, faith-centered perspective to college preparation. Buzzsprout

Here’s a breakdown of the key lessons and why Muslim teenagers (and their parents) should not miss this session.

1. The Myth of Perfection: Why “Perfect” Isn’t the Goal

One of the standout ideas Br. Hamzah challenges is the notion of forcing teenagers into a mold of perfection. In fact, some of the best colleges today are less about the straight-A transcript and more about character, passion, and authenticity. Buzzsprout

For Muslim teenagers, this message is liberating: you don’t have to suppress parts of your identity or pretend to be someone you’re not just to “look good” on paper.

2. The “Five Before Five” Framework: A Faith-Anchored Path

Br. Hamzah introduces a framework inspired by prophetic wisdom called “Five Before Five”. Buzzsprout

While the podcast summary doesn’t list all five in detail, the idea is to cultivate character, awareness, spiritual grounding, and purposeful development before focusing exclusively on metrics (grades, scores, accolades). These five pillars help Muslim teenagers grow in integrity and resilience.

As a parent, guiding your teen through these pillars positions them not simply as “applicants” but as young adults with heart, vision, and inner strength.

3. Actionable Steps to Help Your Teen Discover Their Unique Spark

Br. Hamzah doesn’t leave listeners only with principles; he gives practical strategies for helping teens:

• Encourage your child to reflect on what genuinely excites them—not what looks good to others
• Help them shape an authentic narrative: combining faith, experience, passion, and obstacles
• Shift focus away from only grades and test scores; build stories, leadership, service, character
• Support them in probing their internal motivations, rather than chasing external approval

These steps are especially potent for Muslim teenagers, because they allow room for deen (religious life) to be central—not an afterthought—within the journey.

4. Why This Matters — Both in This World and the Next

This isn’t only about getting into a “good school.” For Muslim teenagers, there’s a bigger vision: becoming people who are beneficial, who carry their faith forward, who live with integrity, and who can contribute positively to society and the ummah.

The podcast frames college guidance not as mere competition, but as a spiritual and character journey. When your teen is grounded in purpose and faith, success becomes meaningful beyond metrics.

5. What You Should Do Next (as a Parent)

1. Listen: Give this podcast episode your full attention. Let the ideas resonate before you critique or filter.
2. Discuss: Sit with your teenager after listening. Ask, “Which part challenged or excited you?”
3. Reflect Together: Use the “Five Before Five” ideas as a conversation guide: where is your teen strong? Where do they need support?
4. Take Small Actions: Perhaps one step each month: exploring one passion, journaling, volunteering, or seeking mentorship.
5. Stay the Course: This is a long game. Don’t revert to “grades only” if it gets hard. Keep returning to principles.

Why IQRA Network Can Help After You Listen

Listening is just step one. Your teen needs guidance, mentorship, and tailored education for real, lasting support. That’s where IQRA Network’s courses come in.

• Visit our courses to see the full list of programs designed for Muslim teens.
• These courses are taught by well-trained, caring teachers who understand both academic standards and the unique needs of Muslim youth.
• Whether your teen wants help preparing for college, improving in key subjects, or growing spiritually and intellectually, there is a path for them.

Imagine combining the inspiration from the podcast with a structured learning plan, guided by people who care.

If you’ve listened (or plan to) to the Br. Hamzah episode, don’t stop there—take action:

1. Explore our courses: Head over to our courses and see which programs align with your teen’s goals.
2. Register your teen: Ready to enroll? sign them up—secure their spot with one of our well-trained teachers.
3. Stay connected: Continue listening to more sessions, checking in with your teen, and letting these lessons guide your parenting and decision-making.